The Next Play Mindset

Every morning, a gazelle and a lioness both start running.

From Gazelle to Lioness: a method for the girl athlete who wants to become the best at what she does.

The gazelle runs away from something.

Why? Because she knows that if she doesn't, the lioness will come and eat her.

The lioness runs after something.

She gets herself together, has a cup of coffee, and starts running. Because if she doesn't, she won't catch the gazelle.

Decide. Act. Believe.

Decide.Act.Believe.

The way to get anything in life is to decide that's what you want, act in that direction, and believe you'll get there. Simple to understand. Not so simple to do.

DecideActBelieve

When the sun comes up, you'd better be running.

So when you get up in the morning, you have a decision to make. What do you want to be, a gazelle or a lioness?

Focus, time, confidence

The Method gets you more focus, more time, and more confidence.

Focus

"Where focus goes, energy flows." That's Tony Robbins. The moment you get a little more interested in your own life and what you really want to do and be, things start moving your way.

Time

Every day has 24 hours. 1,440 minutes. And if we want to reach our goals, we have to find a way to use that time well. Fail to plan, plan to fail.

Confidence

Once you know what you want, your chances of getting better at what you do go way up. And so does your confidence.

Read the guide: She's Not Lazy. She's Stuck.

The Method

1

Decide

Write down what you want to get, do and be, for at least the next 10 years. Write what you want, even if it doesn't sound realistic.

2

Act

Turn every goal into actions, put them on a list, and do the list. From now on, your best friend is hard work.

3

Believe

Confidence is a need, not a bonus. If you want to feel confident, you have to give yourself the things that build that feeling.

There's one more job you need to take on: the Fighter. The one who battles those annoying distractions. It matters just as much as the other three.

Players who ran after something

Hailey, from one goal a game to the national team

At thirteen she was the weakest player on the floor, one goal a game on a good day. She wrote down a goal, made an action list and did it, and her coach didn't let her skip a day. By fifteen she was the best player on her team, and then the national team called. Today she runs her own version of the Method.

Leah, the time system she built herself

She was sixteen, with ADHD and a schedule that was too much for her. She took the time-management part of the Method, the day, the week and the month on one page, and rebuilt it to fit the way her head works. She runs it herself.

Ava, who took charge of her own body

At sixteen she decided to take charge of her own body. She made the decision, did something about it every day, and didn't quit on the weeks when nothing moved. She got where she wanted to be, and she stayed there.

Lexi, from the bench to the women's team

At fourteen she wasn't getting minutes and wanted to quit. Coach Isaac sat her down and gave her the talk. She stayed, worked her list, and today she plays on the women's team.

Real players Coach Isaac coached. Names changed to protect their privacy.

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The journals

Instant downloads on Etsy, in US Letter and A4. You print them at home.

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Questions parents ask

Who is this for?

Young athletes, roughly 13 to 18, and the parents and coaches behind them. The guides are written for parents. The journals and the book are written to the athlete.

Is it for boys too?

Yes. The journals come in girls' editions and in editions for every player, sport by sport. The book, From Gazelle to Lioness, is written to girls. And for the boys too.

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching: goals, actions, habits, and how to handle fear along the way. If your athlete needs more than that, please talk to a professional.

How do the printables work?

You buy on Etsy and download a PDF right away, in US Letter and A4. Print at home or at a print shop. Nothing ships.

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About Coach Isaac

He has ADHD. In school he talked nonstop, got kicked out of almost every class and almost never did his homework. His grades were fine anyway, because he found a method for passing tests.

Later he built a method for life, and taught it to his players, mostly to the girls he coaches.

His story

Free: The Next Play Mini Journal

A seven-page journal for your athlete, written by Coach Isaac in the same words he uses with his own players. One page a day, five minutes a day, in the week between one game and the next. By the end of the week she has looked at the game with a clear head, picked one thing to work on at practice, and written her game plan for the next one.

  • Day 1, The Reset. Tonight, before she goes to sleep. Three slow breaths, one honest sentence about what happened, a name for the feeling, and the one thing this game is teaching her. Then she closes the game. Tomorrow is a different page.
  • Day 2, The Tape. The next morning. Coaches watch the tape the next day, never the same night, because the same night you only see the mistakes. The next day you see the whole game, including what she did right.
  • Day 3, My Why. When the why is strong, the how gets easier. She writes down why she plays, clearly enough to say it out loud.
  • Day 4, One Focus. She knows what to fix and why it matters. Now she turns it into one small thing she can do at practice this week, and repeats it. That's how real improvement works.
  • Day 5, Winter. A sports season works like the seasons of the year, and game season is winter. You can't cancel winter. What you can do is get better at it: stronger physically, stronger mentally, stronger with your feelings.
  • Day 6, Believe. Belief isn't magic. It's what she says to herself, over and over, until it's what she thinks. On this page she writes her own lines instead of the ones other people put in her head.
  • Day 7, Next Play. Her game plan for the next game. Eyes forward. The season only moves in one direction.

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